harridan?,if only they knew how quiet i really am...

Oh dear my head is reeling!!.., i made the mistake of saying on the online magazine "Spiked" comments that everyone should be treated with respect and not judged for their looks, race, age etc.and of course i have had a torrent of abuse from men, mostly, (and a few women in the background of course!!),a young female Barrister got annoyed with an elderly married male Solicitor who commented about how beautiful she was and she shared it on twitter,she said,"How many women are contacted @ linkedin re physical appearance rather than professional skills" Then other professional women shared their similar experiences,so its been a subject of discussion in the u.k media about whether its o.k to give a woman a compliment!..Men are running scared!! a woman with intelligence made them look foolish!! laughing my socks off!!, i did quite like one comment i made,"watch out dinosaurs the world is changing women are demanding to be respected" Scary stuff for your average Mysogynist!!i did enjoy myself,one guy even said,you have not been reticent in expressing your opinion...oh my goodness if only he knew how quiet i am in real life...i suppose of course the psychologists out there would say i am being like this would say it was because of being dis-respected by the guy(Dick) in July!!...Abusive controlling men, and i am afraid normal guys feel its their right to have their egos stroked, and us women are expected to do this, make them feel the big "man"!i hate to say it but far too many of us women do that!! i did, and paid the price when i couldn't do it any more because of the abuse they were inflicting on me, but maybe i shouldn't have treated them like a child by re-enforcing their self esteem..i live and learn!! All my male friends are not like that, i refuse to do that with them,or my three sons,Darren needs to share with me when he is upset and bewildered by the world, i don't mind that, but the 4-5 phone calls and texts, repeated until i answer do get annoying, but he is learning!!