Toxic masculinity?

I wonder if the people who say that Men are 'toxic' have close family, sons,fathers,Uncles,brothers? ...Are they toxic, or are they "good"guys who support their loved ones? the women they love,is it just 'other'womens male loved ones who are the toxic ones..the ones who have no contact with females in society? There is an uproar in Britain because a lovely acomplished,talented Woman has been Murdered, so now society is not safe for Women, we cant ' walk the Streets'and feel safe,as if its something new?

ABUSE LIST Howard

1. Threatened to cut my face cut off with sissors, which were an inch from my face. 2.Having his arm round my neck, trying to strangle me as i was driving over a bridge, with a fast flowing river underneath,because i had been so scared i couldnt speak...with my four and five year old sons in the car. 3.being in a beaten heap on the floor, and my daughter trying to pick me up.. 4.I told him it upset me when he only washed and changed when he was seeing his daughter,and his ex,Haley.I DIDNT MAKE A DIFFERENCE TO HIM.HE just went right on doing it. 5." I dont have to listen to you, i always know what you are going to say" 6."if i WAS seeing her,I am too clever, you would never find out" he later admitted he was seeing her.