NOT "Ghosting" Part Two

I have decided to write this without doing any research,(in the Bible of course) which is the only place to get a sense of Gods Will on any subject! obviously i am not disrespecting the Holy Spirit,He teaches us through His word. So have i ghosted the person who has been Toxic and demanding in my life?...or is it just the last Straw..feeling like i have been treated very badly...not a pity party, just irritation with her behaviour..and knowing she wont change, even though she has Spirit filled believers around her,i know she goes to them to complain and get comfort and justification on her behaviour, as she doesnt seem to have a problem with untruth. In a voicemail yesterday,she went through everything about her texting me,ringing the house phone and having her call rejected...so i am not going to justify myself...the words toxic/controlling cover it all. Her Voice is very threatening,condescending, there is the implication of "do what i want or face the consquences",also the desire to have an argument, fight it out!! No sweetheart i have fought and won against bigger bullies than you!...Its not a fight if its one sided, that would be called BULLYING! I have to admit, i wasnt willing to engage by defying her, really I just wanted to slowly stop contact,but she wont 'allow' that..she wants a fight...not happening!!..i wasnt scared of her,just trying to be kind,i dont do confrontaion, nothing good comes out of it and it certainly is not gloryfying to God, and not a way i feel i should behave as a Believer...