Victim blaming part 2

I am reeling from reading many blogs about "victim blaming"...And some other blogs gives the count of women who had died from domestic violence and has some heartbreaking accounts of how these women and some young girls have died,( by the excellent Karen Ingala Smith, and Caroline criado Perez) .Even more sickening the blogger who talks about the "VICTIM BLAMING"of the 11 year old girl who got pregnant years ago, the press were all over it, blaming her and her mother...it emerged in 2009 that the child was her brothers,where was the outrage and blaming then? He was 16, and as the blogger said he HAD RAPED his sister.( because how can an 11 year old consent to Sex)..and when he came out of prison his mum took him back home, the girl had the baby taken away and was kept in hospital because she was unable to cope with the pyscological affects... this wasn't in an underdeveloped country, it was Britain..