Wise words

Today i am grateful for the Wonderful fellowship with the Ladies from the church i left,at Sandra's,,i was really blessed when the wonderful lady leading said i had a good voice,and asked if i could lead the worship,how wonderful! and humbling too....there seem to be some exciting things going on at the church, and a party on Saturday, which they have invited me too! nice of them but i cant go,of course!
Elizabeth has been very supportive about the whole Ex situation, and has really been the only one to say its right not to get back with Him, and Eddy of course, He says i had forgiven publicly, and then just given Him permission to behave as before! he says know the word states love the sinner, but hate the sin, but
'where does it say one must tolerate the sinner who is controlling, aggressive, and who perpetuates fear and intimidation?..,nobody should walk on eggshells over the sins of others.It saps the Spirit!' 'later on he goes on to say.
'Your going to have to do something completely radical' (i don't think i made it clear to him that i have left the church)' You need to show Howard that your not going to tolerate being bullied or stalked, until the message sinks in.It is obvious he still thinks there is a chance of you two getting back together sometime in the future. Stop playing by his rules, this is not a game.You need to assert your will on him.He only does what he does because you have let him get under your skin for so long.The same can be said for Mike and every other person(male or female), who have taken your feelings for granted.Then you publicly forgive them, and allow them back into your life, your home and furthermore you let your heart rule your head.Answer yourself this question.What respect do you get from those who have not truly repented? Talk is cheap, to be truly repented takes hard work.Trust needs to be earned again.'....

What wise words! i just gave him the bare facts about the events of the past six years!
Well that's me told!! As i have known him for 15 yrs he has seen stuff that i have been through! it is great to have it from a mans point of view.